Cups & Curiosity

Daily writing prompt

What would you change about modern society?

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If I could change one thing about modern society, it would be our obsession with productivity at the expense of presence. Somewhere along the way, we turned life into a race — to be faster, more efficient, more successful, more “on.” We wear exhaustion like a badge of honor, glorify hustle culture, and measure our worth in output. And in doing so, we’ve forgotten how to just be.

I’m not saying ambition is bad. Dreams are beautiful, and working toward them gives life meaning. But when rest becomes guilt-inducing and stillness feels like a waste, something’s gone wrong. We’ve built a world that values busyness over balance, and it’s quietly burning us out.

Social media feeds into this cycle in a big way. We’re constantly plugged in — scrolling, comparing, performing. Our hobbies become content. Our vacations become backdrops for perfectly curated photos. Even our downtime has to be productive — learning a new skill, building a brand, documenting our “wellness journey.” We’re so focused on how we appear and what we achieve that we forget to be present in the moment, to savor our lives as we’re living them.

We’ve also created a culture where saying “I’m busy” is seen as admirable, almost like a humblebrag. But what if we flipped that script? What if instead of being proud of how packed our calendars are, we took pride in how present we were at dinner with friends, or how intentionally we took care of ourselves on a slow Sunday afternoon? What if our calendars weren’t filled just with work meetings and deadlines, but with time blocked out for being human — reading for joy, napping, wandering, doing absolutely nothing of consequence?

Because the truth is, doing more doesn’t always mean being more. In fact, constantly doing can pull us away from the things that make life truly rich: connection, creativity, kindness, curiosity. These things don’t thrive under pressure; they bloom in the space we give them.

I also think this productivity pressure is deeply tied to capitalism and how we assign value to people. We’re constantly told to “monetize our passions,” to “grind now and rest later,” to always be building something. But human beings aren’t machines. We’re not meant to run at full speed every day until we break down. And when we define ourselves only by our ability to produce — whether that’s in a job, a creative pursuit, or a social media following — we lose sight of our inherent worth.

If I could shift something in our collective mindset, it would be this: Let’s stop chasing constant productivity and start embracing purposeful presence. Let’s normalize taking a nap, doing something just for fun, or saying no to one more commitment. Let’s celebrate people for their compassion, their creativity, their being — not just their doing.

Imagine a society where slowing down is respected. Where work-life balance isn’t just a trendy buzzword but an actual way of life. Where someone choosing to rest isn’t questioned, and where we measure success not just by titles and to-do lists, but by how well we live, love, and care for ourselves and others.

I don’t think that’s too much to hope for. I think it’s the change we need — deeply, urgently. And maybe it starts small — like taking a deep breath, logging off for a while, and remembering that we are enough, even when we’re still. Maybe the most radical thing we can do in a society obsessed with doing is to simply be.